Christ in All Things

Considering how much I love blogging, I really don't do it nearly enough. Perhaps upon the start of the next chapter in my life in Ohio, I'll be a bit more attentive. It's odd- while I'm currently caught up in a whirlwind of life-changing decisions, I'm simultaneously bored silly.

For the last couple weeks following graduation, I've returned home awaiting the day I can depart for Small Town USA, Ohio. I'll be living there for the next year as an AmeriCorps VISTA working with a garden initiative. It's a great program, and I'm so grateful for the opportunity to join the existing team, but the transition has not exactly been stress-free. I've been preoccupied trying to seek out affordable housing, finally get my driver's license to make the drive out there, and purchase my first vehicle. All of this on top of the fact that I don't have nearly as much money saved up as I should. My only source of income as a VISTA will be a $500 monthly stipend that will be used for housing, gas, car insurance and student loans. It's a little stress-inducing.

Luckily, I did check off one item in my list as of yesterday. Introducing, for the first time, MISS CHANANDLER BONG, a 1999 purple Dodge Caravan. It probably would not have been my first choice, but I am so fortunate to have a step-dad who found it for me, and a mom who's willing to help me pay for it. My mom has been so amazing throughout this transition, and I know I've added so much additional stress to her already crazy life (the woman works 65+ hours a week!). I am so freaking blessed, it's unbelievable.

So in the midst of all this anxiety, I have, as I mentioned, been struggling to occupy myself during the day-to-day. Such attempts have included: watching the entire Friends series, putting together a yard sale for this weekend, and my new pride and joy, "Christ in all Books". Now what exactly is the latter? I am pleased to announce that I have given myself a little project for the summer (or perhaps longer). My Grandma Ball would be proud.

Since Uganda, I've become even more aware of the presence of Jesus in well, everything. Since I now have so much time on my hands, I'm able to leisurely read for the first time since I entered college! Those two factors got my wheels turning and I began to look for Christ in all the books I'm reading. It hasn't been particularly hard, but it's been so rewarding.

Until the big move, this is how I'm spending my time. But more importantly, this is how God has been revealing Himself to me.

First One(s) at One First

Only in hindsight am I beginning to realize the absolute craziness of the past two days I partook in, so I'm hopping on the blogging bandwagon and thought I'd fill you all in. It began in a little class called Constitutional Law. For our class project our professor thought she'd try something new and have a role play/simulation of a case that was to be brought before the U.S. Supreme Court in April. The case was Christian Legal Society v. Martinez. Although for the last month or so, my head has been swimming with the details of the case, I'll do my best to give you a brief synopsis.

At Hastings College of Law at the University of California in San Fransisco, there is a non-discrimination policy in place that says that all registered student groups must abide by an "All-Comers Policy." This means that campus groups can't discriminate against anyone who wants to join their club on the basis of race, gender, sexual orientation, etc. Sounds simple enough, right? Except that the Hastings' chapter of the national organization, Christian Legal Society states in their bylaws that members that don't abide by their Statement of Faith are not eligible to become voting members, lead Bible studies, etc. As part of this, CLS has said this includes students who engage in extramarital sexual activity (including homosexual conduct). In response, Hastings has denied the group club recognition status, access to meeting places on campus and funding, among other things, stating that CLS is in violation of the college's non-discrimination policy on the basis that it discriminates against LGBT students. Thus, CLS sued saying that Hastings is violating the group's first amendment rights of expressive association and free speech and that the group is not discriminating on the basis of sexual orientation, but those students whose beliefs are not aligned with the group at large (i.e. sexual conduct).

Long story short- the case is incredibly interesting and when decided will have a huge impact on places of public education across the country. To end our simulation, we came up with the plan to drive the two and a half hour drive down to Washington D.C. to wait it out in front of the U.S. Supreme Court for a coveted ticket in to hear the case be argued.

We departed some time between 8:30-9:00 AM on Sunday to arrive at the Court around noon. A court police officer showed us where to settle for our 22+ hour wait and our group of 10 or so was delighted to find we were the first to arrive. We promptly settled in with our lawn chairs, sleeping bags and loads of homemade goodies. A large group of students left shortly thereafter to explore Union Station and the Capitol building and I attempted (and failed) to get some reading done for a presentation I had to do on Tuesday in my Latin American Politics class. The students returned to our stake-out a little after 1:00 PM and not long after, my friend who lives in D.C. showed up for a long overdue reunion. The last time I saw him was while he came home with Frankie and a few others from his platoon while on leave for Thanksgiving my freshman year. It was the first time we met and we've continued to keep in touch over the past four-ish years whether he was stateside or in Afghanistan. He took me out for lunch at a local pub and we had a great time discussing my two favorite things: politics and music. Who knew that there was someone else in this world that shared my belief that The Beatles are overrated?!

He walked me back to my group and we spent another hour or so catching up before he politely excused himself so I could once again attempt and fail to get any work done. The rest of my time with the group was spent playing rounds of Taboo and Mafia with my classmates and partaking in some excellent bonding time. As the night began to set in I realized my extra pair of socks, sweatpants and winter coat may not be enough to shield me from the below 40 degree weather we were about to experience. Sometime around midnight a couple Georgetown students who were members of their school's chapter of CLS and behind us in line divulged that they were headed to their dorm building to use the bathroom and invited anyone in our group to accompany them. My fellow classmate Tim, and I decided to accept their invitation and I wound up spending the 20-30 round-trip walk discussing the case with a third year Georgetown student named Clifton. He was incredibly knowledgeable and I almost felt bad for him as I peppered him with questions concerning his position and hypotheticals. Upon our departure I was on the fence but leaning more toward Hastings and by the time he was done with me I was much more open to and supportive of CLS' stance.

The majority of my fellow students retired to their sleeping bags soon after I returned while I contemplated what I would do for the next several hours since I already had the unfortunate premonition that I would not be sleeping that night due to the cold. Around 1:20 AM, what we thought was an unpredictable rain storm began to come down on us and it took about a minute while we rushed around gathering our things, for us to realize that there's a reason the Court's landscaping looks so perfectly groomed- sprinklers. Settling down on a new patch of grass it wasn't yet 20 minutes later when the sprinklers on the opposite side of the sidewalk went off, making us doubly wet and chilly. After the not-so-happy campers I was with settled in for a third time, I did my best to combat the bone-chilling night by a second, extended trip to Union Station to soak up the heat, multiple laps around the Supreme Court and a 5:00 am trip to "Pete's Diner" with another student to scarf down some hot, greasy diner food.

Around 6:00 AM, we had packed up all our "camp supplies" in time for another Poli Sci professor to swing by and pick them up. It was a mad dash to get all our things in his sedan in under a minute since the street was a No Parking zone, subject to a $250 fine. At 7:00 AM, the Court officer commanded us to form a single file line up the steps of the plaza where we would remain in the blistering cold for another two-ish hours while we awaited our entry into the Court. Following security, and the storing away of our belongings in the public lockers we made our way to the General Admission line to hear the oral arguments for the case we had so long been preparing for. As this has continued on for long enough already (and truthfully, the exhaustion from my all-nighter has caused me to forget most of what we heard), two of the fun surprises for me were the opportunity to chat with the Georgetown student from the night before as we were seated next to each other and the Principal Deputy Solicitor General under President Obama, Neal Katyal who was in the starring role of a book entitled "The Challenge" concerning the Supreme Court case Hamdan v. Rumsfeld that was required reading for our class, was one of the attorneys for the case that was heard after the CLS case.

All-in-all, the experience made for a great story and to be inside the Supreme Court and witnessing the discussion between nine of our nation's most powerful and prestigious political actors left me completely awestruck. I haven't yet decided if I'd be willing to do it again, but for a one-time experience it was definitely worth it! Oh, and before I retire let me just say- I'd encourage you all to ask me questions about the case, since I am by now, an expert.

How Beautiful is our God

Well, it's about time I get back to this whole blogging thing and if any time was an appropriate time to update you all, now would be it!

For the past three years I've taken part in my Campus' Chapter of an organization called International Justice Mission and this year I've taken the lead as President of the group. It's been a tough lesson in just how difficult it can be to be in a position of leadership and get people motivated to work for change, but all-in-all it's an opportunity that I wouldn't trade for anything in the world. This year, my roommate Laura (my co-leader) and I decided we wanted to make it to IJM's Annual Global Prayer Gathering for the first time for our group. So after a LOT of planning and last-minute disruptions we led a group of 9 students down to Washington DC for a weekend of learning about IJM's current operations, as well as much worship and a LOT of prayer. It was easily one of the best experiences I've ever had.

The first 5 of us arrived to DC in time to make it to the Student Gathering during which campus chapters and high school youth groups from as far as Washington state, California and British Columbia shared what their groups had been doing to support the mission of IJM and encourage each other in prayer. The night continued on with a dinner reception and banquet during which we got to speak with some truly incredible people including IJM's founder Gary Haugen, himself. I was so 'starstruck' being able to speak with him that all I could do was mutter about how amazing he was. He is such a humble and down-to-earth man, and we all commented afterward on how he has the rare ability to make you feel like you're the most important person in the room when he's talking to you.

Following the dinner, we listened as IJM's Vice President of Justice Operations Sharon Cohn Wu helped to prepare our hearts for the remainder of the conference and Christian artist Lamont Hiebert and his band Ten Shekel Shirt led the group in worship. When all the festivities had drawn to a close our group of Eastern students met together to debrief what we had experienced and share some insights with each other. It was a time of great Christian fellowship and I think we all walked away feeling more enlightened and on fire for the Lord.

The following morning, we arose early to gather together for worship, reflection and prayer. After which, we went our separate ways to pray for specific IJM global operations. I attended the prayer gatherings for IJM Rwanda and IJM Uganda (of course). It made me truly miss my African home, but more importantly it provided me an amazing opportunity to pray for the casework in these countries. While there are many cases of child sexual violence and police brutality, the work in both these countries deals primarily with illegal property seizure (when a husband dies, often his family or strangers will kick the widow and her children off her own land leaving her completely destitute with no way to provide for herself and her family). IJM has performed miraculous feats during their time there, but they have so much further to go.

First, they encouraged us to pray for the continued courage of clients to not only recognize when their rights are being violated and exploited, but to take a stand, and with the help of IJM, seek justice against their perpetrators. Perhaps the biggest obstacles standing in the way of IJM's lawyers and investigators are the governments of countries such as Rwanda and Uganda. Not only can the government at times be very corrupt, but they very often lack any system for organizing legal documents. The head of the IJM Uganda team informed us that over 1/3 of legal files are lost. Continued prayers are needed for the cooperation of governments. For without them, IJM cannot continue to do its work.

The weekend gave me incredible insight into the character of God, the power of hope and prayer, and my own potential as a servant of Christ; which is ultimately why I wanted to share this blog with you all today.

During Saturday morning worship and prayer the Holy Spirit moved me to begin really considering the stories of men like Moses and the disciple Peter. I am so thankful that the Bible provides us with illustrations of completely flawed and imperfect men rising up to transform lives, and history. For even Moses killed a man, and repeatedly doubted God's calling to end the enslavement of his people and lead them to freedom from their oppressors. Then, there's Peter. Perhaps the most-well known disciple, infamous for denying his Lord, went on to become the cornerstone of the Church and was crucified for his beliefs. All I can think when reflecting on Peter's journey is how thankful I am that he DID deny Christ. It provides us with a deeper insight into Peter's humanity and provides us with the encouragement that although in our sinful human nature we may doubt and deny our Savior, we are still capable of rising up to become the light in the darkness.

One of the several speakers on Saturday morning also brought up the character of Jesus Christ on Palm Sunday. Our Sunday School perception of this event provides us with the understanding that Jesus rode through the streets atop a donkey while his followers worshiped him. We rarely address what Jesus was doing amidst all this chaos. He wept. He gazed into the crowd and saw the brokenness of the people around him and he wept. Jesus sees our hurt, our pain and our brokenness and he desires that we be released from it and truly experience love. The love of God, the love of ourselves and the love of others. As Jesus has rescued us, we have the ability to rescue our brothers and sisters from their oppressed and impoverished circumstances. If we are to truly embody the model Christ set for us, seeing their hurt and their brokenness should call us to weep on their behalf, but to further do something to end that pain.

The story of David and Goliath was also used. A story was told by aftercare workers in Cambodia who work with 9, 10, 11 year old Cambodian girls who have been sold into brothels and have been severely sexually abused. Let me repeat that- NINE YEAR OLD GIRLS. Tears welled up in my eyes and my heart broke as I heard more about how these beautiful children had their innocence completely robbed of them. The aftercare workers shared with us what they told the girls to encourage them to stand up against their abusers in trial. They shared the story of David and Goliath. While Goliath far surpassed David in almost every way, David had one thing that Goliath did not. A rock. In light of David's story, the aftercare workers provided the girls with a rock to hold while they sat and testified against their perpetrators. On this rock was written the word, "Truth." This made me think- no, we are not sexually abused Cambodian girls, but we are weak and broken people. We are attempting to face head-on the Goliath of social injustice and in every way it appears that we are going to be beaten. But we have a secret weapon- the Truth. With the power of the Almighty on our side, we will not be beaten. Along these same lines, another speaker shared with us Psalm 124- "If the Lord had not been on our side- let Israel say- if the Lord had not been on our side when men attacked us, when their anger flared against us, they would've swallowed us alive."

I suppose it's about time that I wrap up this post as it's already gone on long enough. But I genuinely wanted to share with you just a taste of the hope and encouragement I experienced at the Global Prayer Gathering this weekend and I hope you leave feeling that same hope and faith in the power of God. I would also ask that even if you are not familiar with IJM's work, you would continue to keep them in your prayers as IJM investigators are literally risking their lives to ensure the justice of their clients. If you're interested in supporting and learning more about their mission visit their website at IJM.org. 

A Letter To Me

On May 3rd, 2009, 4 days before I departed Uganda, while participating in a day of fasting and silence, I wrote a letter to myself, which I just now received. In that moment of immense clarity, I perfectly summed up everything that Uganda was for me. So for those of you who've asked me to describe my experience, I apologize for my complete inability to put together my thoughts and emotions and let you in. But I'm hoping, finally, by reading this you'll be able to see just how profound my time there was, and how I've changed since then.

A Letter to Me,
Right now I'm participating in USP's Debrief Solitude & Fasting and trying to reflect back on my semester in Uganda. Ha- remember way back then?? I'll admit- my feelings now can pretty much be summed up in one word: fearful. I'm afraid. Afraid to leave Uganda. Afraid to leave the friends I've made here. But mostly just afraid to return home where I'm likely to fall into old habits and be surrounded by people who want to hear all about my time here, but will never truly understand what I've experienced and how it's changed me. I'm altogether dreading it to be honest. 

I feel as though I've experienced a lot of changes in my beliefs and behaviors that I hope to remember and stick to. For starters, running daily has brought me immense joy. It's given me time to let go of all my stress, to stop thinking and just spend time with God in the beauty of His creation. I don't know how I would've managed this semester without it and I really want to continue it when I get home. 

Something I spent a lot of time thinking about in Faith & Action and ATR were the ideas of how accepting we in the West are of our own sins of greed and materialism, but how quick we are to judge the unfamiliar sins of polygamy or what-have-you. It's added another dimension to my beliefs about homosexuality and the fact that it is no worse than any other sin. It's only reinforced my belief that the ay community deserves the same rights as everyone else. Ironic that I made this discovery within a country that sentences homosexuals to life in prison simply because they're gay. 

I also fell in love with the idea of religious pluralism. I've spent an awfully long time struggling with the idea that my religion is the "right" religion and if my God is a just and loving God, why would He choose me to save while leaving many of His children who've never even been exposed to Christ, to burn in hell?? To put terminology to the idea that there is truth in all religions and Christ can be found outside Christianity has provided me with immeasurable comfort and reassurance. More than that, however, it's renewed my faith in God's love, grace and justice. 

On a smaller note, I cannot forget my time spent in Creative Writing. It completely revived my love for writing and literature, as well as providing an opportunity to receive some much-needed therapy to get out a lot of the angst I had about Ed, Josh, Daddy and Frankie. I'll never forger the one-on-one time spent with Jason. He asked me if I considered myself a happy person. I told him, I'd like to think I am, but for the most part I think I tend to be more negative and pessimistic. He disagreed, telling me that he does think I'm a happy person and that I need to use those past struggles to relate to those who've been through what I've been through and to help those who haven't to understand. This, along with the struggle I'd been having in how depressed and negative I'd become and how to get back to the happy Kaity I used to be, eventually led me to the realization that to remain negative and pessimistic is to completely discredit the amazing blessings and works God is actively doing in my life. 

We devoted so much time to experiencing and talking about simple living throughout the semester, it'd be impossible to leave without it having some kind of impact on me. It's really made me aware of how much I DO have and how frivolous I am with it all. I really hope to become much more conscious about how I'm spending my money, but more than that, I want to abandon the diea that because I "earned" it, that it rightfully belongs to me. I now know that if I'd been born into a family in Mukono or Serere, there's no way I'd be able to have all the wealth and opportunity I have now. With that in mind, I need to give credit where it's due and acknowledge that all I have is property of God alone, and I need to treat is as such. 

The possible highlight of the semester (apart from Debrief, because so far, it's been incredible) was Rwanda. I may have learned more about the world, God, and myself in that one week than I learned in the entire semester. For starters, just seeing the difference between Rwanda and Uganda made me realize there's sooo much in the world I still need to see and experience. It certainly won't help my restless spirit, but I know the extent of what the world has to offer and I'm prepare to seize it. I also obviously have to address what we witnessed concerning the genocide. I honestly am still having trouble trying to fathom the brutality of it all. I just couldn't understand how much you would have to dehumanize a person or group of people in order to commit such unthinkable crimes. I'd spend a large majority of my time in Uganda feeling utterly depressed with the abundance of corruption in African governments and with no hope in sight, seriously contemplated a future in the military as an easy solution to a deep-rooted problem. Seeing what I saw in Rwanda served to make me realize and drive the point home that 1)there is no just war. The way the Hutus dehumanized the Tutsis is exactly what the U.S. is doing to people in the Middle East and 2)it is a lot easier to hate someone than it is to love them, but it is, after all, what Jesus calls us to do to bring His kingdom to earth. 

What we saw in Rwanda absolutely broke our hearts. But as I gave my testimony to that rural Church, I summarized the entire theme of the trip. Although everyone needs to remember what happened in April of 1994 and keep those who were lost in our memories, Rwanda should not (and hopefully, will not) be defined by the genocide. Rather, the faith, perseverence and hope we witnessed there will serve as how Rwanda will be defined for years to come. I recited for the Rwandan congregation my favorite verse" Isaiah 40:31, and I still hold it to be true. Especially in light of the genocide survivors AND killers. The whole experience inspired my tattoo idea, which I will hopefully have the next time I read this! On a more personal note, meeting some of the survivors who've completely forgiven the killers who massacred their families and ruined their lives has made me see how petty my grudges are and how much I need to actually forgive Ed. I've experienced nothing compared to some of those people, so who am I to refuse forgiveness?? 

I guess this is long enough, so I'll end here. Good luck over the summer and in your senior year! But mostly, don't ever forget what you learned in Uganda. 

-Kaity

Living in the Here and Now

It's been awhile. But better late than never, right? As it is currently after 4 am and I really should be trying to sleep for work tomorrow, let me start by saying I'm going to try and keep this short and sweet. Secondly, given the time, I also apologize if this is completely incoherent.

I've had past issues with depression, and lately it's been rearing it's ugly head once again. I think a lot of it just has to do with the fact that I'm all by myself in Philly and feeling pretty lonesome most of the time. Anyway, tonight I was thinking about two things: 1. About how many acquaintances I have, in comparison to how few friends I have and 2. About how much I move around and rarely stay in one place for long. Needless to say, I also thought about the fact that I think #1 is primarily caused by #2. This was quite a revelation for me, in and of itself, but then I got to thinking that although I love a change of scenery and want to experience as much of the world as I can, I am constantly thinking of my life in terms of the future.

Stay with me while I try to explain. While I was in Uganda, my focus was on future travels, future career goals and internships for the summer. Since I've been in Philly, my focus has been on the process of entering Law School, going back to school and preparing for IJM and trying to find a part-time job for the fall. During both these times, I've been in the midst of an absolutely amazing place that a lot of people would love to have the opportunity to experience for themselves, and I was completely distracted. Realizing this has made me realize, that for once, I need to stop focusing on the future and just live and be happy in the here and now.

While I admit that it is a definite flaw in my character, I also believe that I've been socially trained to think in terms of the future rather than actually enjoying the present. As a college student especially, I feel like society is telling us that the reason you go to college in the first place is just to take that first step towards getting a job that you'll be working the rest of your life. There's very little emphasis put on the actual experience of college itself. Sure the academic piece is to be admired, but what about all the learning taking place that won't be on a mid-term? And what about all the amazing people you have the privilege of getting to know? There's so much there that's looked past because we're so accustomed to living for the future rather than 'seizing the day'!

Just some food for thought. I encourage everyone to start being happy in exactly where they are right now. And I promise, I'll be trying extra hard to practice what I preach. Because honestly, there's no point in living a life full of regrets.