8.29.2016

I've Read One, I Need to Read More [Guest Post by TexErin-in-Sydneyland]


Hello!  No, I'm not Kaity.  She's busy being mommy to baby #2...and to Charlie...so, I'm honored to help out by talking about a topic that Kaity and I bond over - books!  I'm Erin, a bookworm/booknerd/booklover, and I'm a self-professed book challenge junkie.  (Psssst...so is Kaity.)  I blog at TexErin-in-SydneyLand and host a book challenge that Kaity participates in at Book Challenge by Erin.  Stop by and visit me.

Today, I'm going to tell you about some authors ... specifically, the fact that I've read one (and only one) book by each of these authors, but that one reading adventure convinced me that I need to read more from them.  A variety of genres are represented - YA, contemporary fiction, historical fiction, mystery/thrillers, and international settings.  These are "my top ten authors that I've read one book, and I need to read more".





1.  Jodi Picoult - That's right.  I've only read one Jodi Picoult book.  I don't know why I never took the time to pick up one of her books.  I think I'd envisioned that she was more fluff and less substance.  Well, the one book I read proved me wrong.  Here's what I had to say about Nineteen Minutes

"Whoa. Centered around a high school shooting, you know it's going to be a provocative topic to read. All the different perspectives are examined of what leads to this event, the aftermath of it, and the views of those involved. As I was reading, I felt angry, sad, and horrified; I felt empty in some passages, and full of emotion in others. A great read."
I have 6 Jodi Picoult books added to my "to read" list already.  Next up (I think) will be The Pact.

2.  Colleen Hoover - This (primarily) YA author seems to receive praise for almost every book she writes from almost every reader that I know.  I read Slammed, really enjoyed it, rated it 5 stars.  But, for some reason, I didn't care to read the two other books in this particular trilogy.  I didn't think the story needed more.  I keep intending to pick up another book of hers...Hopeless and Maybe Someday are the two on my radar.  Maybe, someday, I'll actually grab one and read it.  See what I did there?  Yep, I'm a dork. 

3.  Dean Bakopoulos - One of my fellow booklovin' bloggers is a huge fangirl of this author.  You can hear what she and her partner-in-book-crime have to say about him in this podcast of theirs: The Armchair Librarians.  I read (and was enamored with) Please Don't Come Back from the Moon, so I will definitely read more from Mr. Bakopoulos. 

4.  Jojo Moyes - I confess: I hesitated reading Me Before You.  It was receiving so many rave reviews that I worried that there was no possible way that it could live up to the hype.  Thank goodness I read it.  I'm so glad I didn't miss out on the story of Will and Louise.  I have four other books from this author on my "to read" list.  I don't plan to wait around for years (again) before I finally read more of her stories.

5.  Chevy Stevens - Through the world of blogging and book lovin' bloggers, I discovered this author and picked up her thriller Still Missing.  It was a solid read that I thoroughly enjoyed and convinced me to read more. 

6.  Wally Lamb - I described I Know This Much Is True as "an emotional journey" with "some gut-wrenching, heart-breaking, cringe-causing moments."  The writing skill of Wally Lamb (in the book I read) is remarkable.  I hope his other books reinforce this sentiment. 

7.  Laurie Halse Anderson - After reading Speak, I thought quite a bit about the dangers of teenagers, and the problems that they face.  I questioned why, as a society, aren't we better equipped with preventing some of those dangerous acts?  Or giving assistance when dangers are met?  Just read this book that was originally published in 1999.  You'll understand what troubles me.  Next up, Wintergirls.

8.  Nadia Hashimi - Since reading The Pearl That Broke Its Shell, I've been singing its praises.  It was a informative, heart-breaking, and powerful book.  If you have read and enjoyed Khaled Hosseini's books, then this is a must read.  I plan to read When the Moon is Low sometime soon.

9.  Tana French - I recently read In the Woods which is the first in a series called the "Dublin Murder Squad".  I enjoyed it enough to commit myself to continuing the series.  I've had feedback from a couple of other mystery/thriller readers that as the series continues it gets better and better.

10.  Kristin Hannah - As a fan of historical fiction, when I started reading reviews about The Nightingale, I knew I wanted to read it.  This book ripped my heart out, wadded it up in a ball, stomped on it, and kicked it to the curb...but in a good way...if that's possible.  As I looked through her previous books, three or four others quickly grabbed my attention.  Next: Firefly Lane

Have you read any of these authors?  Do you have book recommendations that are "must reads" from their collection of books?  Are there any authors that you've only read one book, but know you want to read more?


8.25.2016

Why I (Honestly) Chose a Natural Birth


DMB Natural BirthI've always held this belief that I was somehow born in the wrong generation. I've long thought that had I been a baby-boomer, I would have advocated for peace and love, I would have danced freely at Woodstock, and I would have had my babies naturally- the way God and nature intended. In a past life, I'm fairly certain I was a hippie.

So it made sense that when my husband and I found out we were pregnant with our first son, I would pursue a drug and intervention-free birth. I read all of the natural birthing books and watched documentaries on the state of the U.S.' maternal health system. It seemed like fate that Ohio's only accredited natural birth center located within the Miami Valley Hospital, was just a short drive away...

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8.15.2016

Mini-Maternity Photoshoot for Baby 2.0


Remember that fun, color-filled photoshoot I posted about a couple months ago? Well, my amazing, talented sister-in-law did it again!

Shortly after she dusted me from head to belly in rainbow powder, I asked her if she would mind taking a few pictures of the preggo belly. I never got maternity pictures with Charlie, and while I don't necessarily regret it, knowing that this will likely be my second and final pregnancy, it almost felt wrong to let it slip by without some kind of documentation.

Ashlee and I spent no more than a half hour or so traipsing around the little arboretum on the college campus in our town while I played the part of the pregnant, flower child princess. These are some of my favorites that came out of our afternoon:






Thank you so much, Ashlee! Although I am anxious to trade in this belly for a bouncing baby boy, I'm so glad you captured this beautifully blessed season of our life.

8.11.2016

A Letter to my Second Baby




Dear Baby C (Squared),

A few weeks ago, I wrote a letter to your big brother. I relived sweet memories of late night cuddle sessions, and expressed my gratitude for the wonderful boy that he is. You will have a beautiful example to look up to in your older brother, but there is not a single doubt in my mind that you will be able to carry the torch of amazing Stuckert babies all on your own.

Yesterday morning, I went in for my 37-week prenatal appointment. It was pretty uneventful- you are healthy as can be and have started nestling down into my pelvis, awaiting the perfect time to begin making your entrance into the world. As my doctor brought the Doppler to my belly to listen to your heartbeat, you took one giant swing, and pushed the Doppler away. Dr. N was both startled and amused, and I just laid back and giggled. You sure did make your presence known! It made me smile to think that maybe you were looking out for your Mama in your own little way. Admittedly, I may be reading more into your involuntary punch, but just that tiny little thrust set my mind whirling into thinking about who you are going to be.

I'm really excited to be your Mommy and can't wait to see who you look like. While Charlie has your Daddy's eyes, and my mouth, I wonder if you'll get my eyes, or maybe you'll get Daddy's ears. While Charlie is independent, curious, and adventurous, I wonder if you'll be more introverted and calm.

I hope that whoever you are and whatever you look like, you know how loved you are and how perfectly you fit into the puzzle of our family. Without you, we're just...incomplete.

It's scary, exciting and nerve-wracking to think that I could be meeting you in a matter of weeks, or even days. I'm praying for your safe journey and can't wait for the moment I get to hold you in my arms, stare into your puffy, newborn eyes, and fall head over heels in love. I'll see you soon, Baby C.

Love,
Mommy

8.03.2016

JULY | Summer Book Challenge Check-In


July was the first month in some time in which I had some overlap in my book challenges. I managed to finish out Megan's Semi-Charmed Summer Book Challenge (in just over a month!) in the first week, and then I promptly began checking off my list for Erin's Book Challenge that runs from July-October.

And if you're wondering how I've managed to chip away so many books (because I'm sure the curiosity is killing you), rest assured that I am not some super speed-reader. At any given time, I am reading three books in three separate formats: print book, e-book (on my iPhone Kindle app), and audiobook. Since I drive a ton for work, I manage to go through a lot of audiobooks, and then I switch back and forth between print books and my phone, depending on my mood. I've always been a bigger fan of real books and visit my local library at least on a weekly basis, but can't deny that there's something nice about being able to lay in bed and just crack open an e-book on my phone without having to get up. I'm lazy, what can I say?


Anyway, here's what I read in July:


15 points: Read a book set in Appalachia | A Walk in the Woods: Rediscovering America on the Appalachian Trail by Bill Bryson (276 pages, ★★★★)
15 points: Don’t judge a book by its cover! Read a book with a cover you personally find unappealing. | Spiritual Midwifery by Ina May Gaskin (482 pages, ★★)
I swore by Ina May's Guide to Childbirth during my first pregnancy so to say this book was a disappointment would be a vast understatement. The first third was birth stories from the Farm that discussed the spiritual nature of childbirth. Despite some silly, hippie-dippie colloquial language, I enjoyed it. The rest of the book was written for midwives as almost a how-to. I got bored with all the scientific language and reading about diseases, birth defects, etc that were not relevant to me.  
My biggest complaint, however, was the organization of the book, it didn't feel like one cohesive text, but a few different childbirth-related books that had been chopped up and forced together against their will. Ina May then ended the book on a super negative note sharing two particularly horrible hospital birth stories illustrating the uncompassionate nature of doctors. It was altogether bizarre.

PREVIOUS POINTS: 170
TOTAL POINTS: 200- COMPLETE!

Once I had completed Megan's challenge, I immediately started crossing books off my list for Erin's Book Challenge (you can see my Preliminary List here): 




15 points: Read a book that has a (mostly) blue cover. | The Vegas Diaries by Holly Madison (288 pages, ★★★★)
Such a good, guilty pleasure read- I devoured it in one sitting. I felt that Holly's first book was very "woe is me," so this was the redemption I was hoping to find for one of my favorite reality TV personalities.
25 points: Read a book set in a country you have always wanted to visit. (Germany) | Those Who Save Us by Jenna Blum (479 pages, ★★★★)
For those interested in the Holocaust or WWII history, I felt like this was a fresh perspective written from the alternating perspectives of a German woman who lived through the horrors of Nazi Germany in the 1940's and her daughter in the 1990's. Although it wasn't my favorite book set during this time, I did think the author did a good job portraying the shades of grey present when humans are placed in dire situations and the lengths people will go to to survive and protect the ones they love.


10 points: Read a book that starts with the letter "R." | The Royal We by Heather Cocks & Jessica Morgan (454 pages, ★★★★)
Although I will echo the sentiments of others that this book was looong, it gets a pass because it was light, fun, and a total guilty pleasure read. Loved it!
5 points: Freebie – Read a book that is at least 200 pages. | Present Over Perfect by Shauna Niequist (240 pages, ★★)
I received this book from NetGalley in exchange for my honest review. 
Here's the thing: I love Shauna Niequist. I love her heart, her faith, and the way she centers her life around family, friendship, and food. But sometimes her writing style drives me a little bit bonkers. I wish that it was more organized, and easier to follow. Instead, it reads like a stream-of-consciousness or like one long blog post. I love where her head is at, but I feel like sometimes I miss her point because I'm just trying to follow her train of thought. 
I will continue to read her books, so long as she continues to write them, but this only gets three stars from me simply because of the above.

30 points: Read a music related book. | How to Kill a Rock Star by Tiffanie DeBartolo (438 pages, ★★)

I thought the premise of the book was interesting, and to be fair I really loved how music-centric it was. That being said, I spent the first half of the book being completely annoyed by the lack of character development and the second half annoyed by the melodrama, self-righteousness and just plain shitty-ness of the main characters. 
I also found the author's use of "gay" and "retard" by the main characters completely unnecessary. I could understand if they were being used to give more insight into the personalities of the characters, but I felt like it was more indulgent and insensitive than anything else. 
I would recommend this book probably only to indie music-loving emo kids. For anyone else, pass.
PREVIOUS POINTS: 0
TOTAL POINTS: 85


 I got a little burnt out on reading books strictly to meet my book challenge categories this month, so I did sneak in a few "extra credit" reads that were just for me:


I liked the idea behind this anthology and admittedly I did enjoy some of the original stories written by authors who were inspired by Elizabeth Gilbert's Eat Pray Love. That being said, my reason for loving Elizabeth Gilbert was notably missing: HER voice.
 Love Warrior by Glennon Doyle Melton (272 pages, ★★★)
I knew I would love this book because I love virtually every word that comes out of Glennon's mind. But I was completely unprepared for how this book would wreck me, convict me, and cast light on the dark, scary, vulnerable parts of myself and my marriage. Glennon's struggle with intimacy particularly resonated with me and as she wrote about how she and her husband learned how to drop their shame-filled ideas of what sex is supposed to be and re-learn how to love each other, tears streamed down my face. 
I devoured this book and if I could give it six stars, I would. This book needs to be read by every woman, every married couple, every person who has ever felt like no one understands their pain. I can't begin to overstate the beauty, vulnerability, courage, and honesty that is wrapped up in this book. 
(I received this book through a GoodReads giveaway).
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What books did you love this month?

p/c: Goodreads


8.01.2016

An Exciting Announcement!!!


I've been keeping a secret...

And no, I did not have a baby and not tell anyone.

What I did do, is become a Contributing Writer for...


Eek! I have been waiting until my first post went live to share the happy news, and today is that day!

World Breastfeeding Week is August 1-7, and to kick things off right, I'm sharing my Three Tips for Pumping at Work:

When I was pregnant with my first son, I was a fiend for breastfeeding stories. I sought out firsthand accounts through Mommy blogs, scrolled through chat rooms, and peppered the Mamas in my life with questions. I made sure to invest in some nipple cream and prepared myself for the very worst- sore nipples, a baby who couldn't latch, over/undersupply, etc. To be honest, I was kind of dreading it.

So imagine my surprise when breastfeeding was a breeze for me! My son latched on right away, and as one of my L&D nurses comically phrased it, I had "the right equipment" for it. I had readied myself to be in pain, to possibly bleed, and potentially not have it in me to stick with it and switching to formula. What I never anticipated was how much I loved breastfeeding. I never expected that I would treasure being my son's sole source of nutrition, or that it was I that could comfort him when on one else could, or how simply magical it felt to stare into his sweet, baby blues as he suckled away and my heart nearly exploded with love....

To read more, check out my first post on Dayton Moms Blog!


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