6.30.2016

Blogger Love v.13



It's been a really long time since I've shared some blogger love, but there has been such serious goodness in my corner of the interwebs, that I just have to share some of the posts I've been loving on lately:



ON FAITH

Of Friendship, Rock n' Roll, and Writing Things I Never Thought I Would Write by Seems Legit | JD is a former co-worker of Chuck's from when he worked at the World Vision warehouse in Pittsburgh. He is so much of what I wish Christians were, and you guys, he's STARTING A CHURCH. I am so excited to see how his BelovedTribe takes shape.

A Realized Obligation by the florkens | Kate's post was a much-needed dose of perspective for me on what it means to be a Mama in this country. So much goodness is wrapped up in her words.

ON MOTHERHOOD

On Mirages and Mama-Hood by mr. thomas and me | I have such a blogger crush on Amber, it's unreal. Her words are so poetic, and beautiful and this post is filled with such vulnerability and honesty, it just blew me away. 

Dear Mama Whose Heart is Twisted about Having Your Second Baby by Whimsical September | Seriously, Erica might as well have been writing directly to me during this season of my life. Her words were such a support an encouragement to me that I actually got a little teary reading this.

A Day in the Working Mama Life by Carolina Charm | I shouldn't find "Day in the Life" posts as interesting as I do, but alas, I'm nosy. I've been torn up about sending my kiddos to daycare once I return from maternity leave in November, so Christina's post was so encouraging to me.

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What bloggers have you been loving on lately?


6.27.2016

Baby 2.0's SURPRISE Baby Shower!


As I mentioned previously, because Baby 2.0 is a boy, I wasn't expecting much in the way of presents, least of all a shower. Second babies apparently just aren't as exciting, and especially if they're the same gender as their elder sibling! Not that we needed much, or that I even necessarily wanted a shower (hello, social anxiety), but the thought that this baby wasn't going to be as loved, appreciated, or showered as Charlie was did make me a little sad.


Fortunately, my party planning extraordinaire of a Mama had my back! My sister who has been living with us for the last few weeks to help with watching Charlie was leaving to travel up to Upstate New York for a job interview which left us sitter-less. My Mom offered to come down and watch him for a few days so we didn't have to scramble to find childcare and in that week, she somehow planned an entire shower to surprise us with for the weekend she was going to be here.



While I was at work, thinking that Charlie and his Grandma were going shopping and playing around the house, unbeknownst to me, my Mom was busy preparing and cooking enough food for an army. When Saturday rolled around, I conveniently had to work in the morning and returned home around 1pm. Charlie was still napping when I got back so I laid down hoping that I could catch a quick cat nap before he awoke. We both got up around 2:00pm and I asked my Mom if she would be willing to watch Charlie for a few hours that afternoon because Chuck and I were long overdue for a date. She agreed and Chuck and I were going to catch a late lunch. As he got ready, I grew more and more irritable because I hadn't eaten since 8:00am and I swore he was taking his sweet time putting clothes on.



We finally got in the car and he said he was going to surprise me with the destination (I honestly didn't care where we went as long as I got something to eat!). As he took back roads and meandered his way to our surprise destination, I was growing more and more annoyed, and more and more suspicious. We finally began approaching our friend Jon's farm (the same farm where we got married) and I saw a ton of cars parked behind the house. I knew immediately what was going on and was so ticked at my Mom and Chuck for not suggesting that I change out of my grungy cami and workout capris! Seriously, you guys couldn't have recommended that I wear something nicer than exercise clothes to a lunch date?! Haha

Charlie loves himself some good fruit salad!
Although I did have a little bit of anxiety at the onset (I am terrible at being the center of attention), the fact that so many of my loved ones were present and accounted for on such short notice left me teary-eyed. I was so concerned that no one was as excited about baby 2.0's arrival and they all completely proved me wrong.

I caught up with friends and family, munched on my Mama's delicious cooking (she makes the best potato salad around!) and opened presents with my Hubby. It was such a wonderful, love-filled day and I was so thankful for the friends and family that threw together such a blessed event to celebrate Baby 2.0's arrival.







6.22.2016

30 WEEKS | Obligatory Baby #2 Check-In


In the 15ish total months that I have been pregnant in my life and maintained a blog, not once have I filled out one of those bumpdate/"this week baby is the size of a..." questionnaires. It feels like I'm missing out on some kind of Mommy Blogger rite of passage, so without further ado, here is my first and last Baby 2.0 bumpdate:



BABY IS THE SIZE OF: A platypus, a cucumber, or large tub of ice cream (depending on which of my apps you consult)

GENDER: Bouncing baby boy!

THOUGHTS/FEELINGS: A little bit sad that my sweet Charlie won't get as much attention and trying to mentally prepare myself for another natural birth (if all goes according to plan). 

FOOD AVERSIONS: This was much worse during my first trimester, but has petered off. I'm still a little turned off by poultry for some reason, though.

FOOD CRAVINGS: My food preferences are so out of whack with what I usually eat. I am not exactly a meat-and-potatoes kind of girl, but my ideal meal this entire pregnancy has been a big juicy, steak with mashed potatoes and veggies. I guess this baby wants some protein!

HEALTH/FITNESS: I would love to tell you that I've kept up with some sort of consistent workout routine, but I'd be lying. I like to think that chasing after a sprinting 18-month old is workout enough.

MIDWIFE APPOINTMENTS: My last appointment was at 28 weeks and it was pretty uneventful (which is always a good thing when you're growing a human!) From this point forward, I start going every two weeks. Aah!

WEIGHT GAIN: Based on my weight at my 28-week appointment I'm up about 13 pounds from my pre-pregnancy weight and my OB/GYN said I'm measuring right on track.

SYMPTOMS: My heartburn has gotten worse, but other than that, I'm feeling pretty okay for the most part. I think nesting is starting to set in because all of a sudden I've had this intense motivation to decorate ALL THE THINGS in our house.

SLEEP: Up until last week, I was sleeping through the night. But pregnancy insomnia strikes again! I wake up any time between 12-1:30 am and usually don't go back to sleep until close to 4:00 am. Thankfully, I have the Kindle app on my phone to distract me so I'm not just laying in bed restless.

MATERNITY CLOTHES: Being pregnant in the summertime is seriously a whole other monster. When I was pregnant with Charlie I lived in leggings. This time around, give me all of the sports bras and Soffe shorts! I bought myself some Old Navy maternity tanks a few months ago that have been invaluable and I'm trying to stretch my existing wardrobe so as not to buy a bunch of maternity things that I'll never wear again.

BABY ITEMS PURCHASED: Honestly, there is very little that we need for Baby Boy #2. I suppose I should probably start stocking up on diapers and eventually we will need to buy a carseat and figure out how to transition both boys into one room, but for now, we have all we need. Of course, that didn't stop me from buying Baby #2 NB onesies to match an outfit I got for Charlie the other day at Carter's. I will totally be that Mom who dresses her kids in matching clothes. No shame in my game!

DADDY SAYS: He's excited for our two boys, and also excited to never have to go through his wife being pregnant again. Haha!

LOOKING FORWARD TO: Our baby boy! I know that so many women have more difficult pregnancies than I've had, and so many women would give anything to get pregnant as easily as I have and I really do try to be mindful of that. But I am just not someone who enjoys being pregnant. I'm uncomfortable all of the time and really see pregnancy as a means to an end- the end being our beautiful little family of four. So yeah, I guess you could say I'm ready for this baby to be fully cooked and join his family!


6.15.2016

Book Challenge by Erin 5.0


Apparently this summer is all about getting in touch with my 9-year old, bookworm self who would spend every summer day spent in the refreshing air conditioned sanctuary that was my Grandma's local library, and my summer evenings staying up wayy past my bedtime with the box fan humming in the background as I raced through another Dear America, or Magic Attic Club book. 

I have been reading up a storm the last month or so and am actually on track to finish my book challenges, so what could it hurt to commit myself to one more?! If I haven't mentioned it before, I looove Erin's book challenges. She hosts them through Facebook so they're very interactive, discussion-based and just a heck of a lot of fun. You don't need to be a blogger to participate, so this challenge, I actually invited my sister-in-law to play along and it's pretty much all we can talk about. July 1st can't come soon enough!

This is my preliminary list for Book Challenge by Erin 5.0:



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I did cheat a little bit and picked a few books that overlapped with the Semi-Charmed Book Challenge categories, but either way, I've got a pile of library books sitting on my bookshelf (and Kindle because I can now borrow library books through Ohio's Digital Library- say whaaat?!) waiting to be read.

This may be the first time I finish a book challenge- wish me luck!


6.07.2016

3rd Trimester Thoughts


And just like that, I’m in my third trimester. I’m not sure what kind of sorcery is at play here, but how can I possibly be having a second baby in less than 3 months?!


The lack of pregnancy-related posts on my blog is a pretty good reflection of how this pregnancy has gone in general: barely noticed. Not that we’re not exceedingly grateful and excited for this little soul to make his way into the world, but we just don’t have the time or energy to devote to anxiously anticipating his arrival the way that we did with his older brother. Charlie is growing more and more independent every day, so 99.9% of our attention is directed at him. Just please don’t ask me how I’m going to continue to nurture his little adventurous self, as well as a newborn baby. Those are logistics that I am just not yet ready to come to terms with. I am very much of the mindset, “we’ll cross that bridge when we get there.”

This pregnancy has proven more difficult than Charlie’s. I was sicker the first trimester and I’ve gotten a whole lot bigger a whole lot faster than I did with C. With Charlie, I only gained 23 pounds and was pretty proud of that fact. Karma. Total karma. I’m not eating more than I did this time around. If anything, I might be eating less because I’m too busy to stop for a snack throughout the day. But I am eating less healthfully which I know I need to get better about.

Being pregnant during the summer is also a whole different ball game. The heat really affects me so I have to be careful about being outside for too long, lest I start to feel faint and nauseated. Not to mention, I have just about no clothes that fit this bump so my grand plans for the summer involve sitting around my house in a sports bra, book in hand and A/C on high, for the next three-ish months.


Although I am not free of anxieties about having two boisterous little kiddos and having to start from scratch once again after it feels that our family has just now settled into a rhythm, I’m excited. I’ve had my fair share of sad thoughts at the idea that my first baby will no longer be my baby and I’m really fearful of him feeling neglected when the baby comes and I can’t focus all of my love and attention on him. That being said, I’ve had this phantom feeling for a while that our family is not yet complete and I’m really looking forward to completing it. Chuck and I have talked about how many kids we’d like to have and I think this is going to be it for us. That could garner a whole other post in and of itself, but suffice to say, I feel really contented thinking about our soon-to-be, perfect little family of four. 

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6.02.2016

MAY RECAP | What I Read, Did, and Ate


There's been a severe lack of life-related posts on this blog as of late, and despite what my posting may indicate, I have done other things in the last month besides read. Although, reading probably accounts for about 95% if I'm being honest.

It's crazy to think that I only read 8 books between January and April, because I more than made up for it in May. Due to the sheer volume, I'm consolidating my reads into three categories: Must Reads, If You Have Time, and Don't Bother's.


MUST-READS

Notorious RBG: The Life and Times of Ruth Bader Ginsburg by Irin Carmon & Shana KnizhnikInspired by the Tumblr of the same name, I was pleasantly surprised to find this book full of depth and terrific content. It delved into RBG's most "notorious" opinions and dissents, including notes in the margins providing background, insight into why Ginsburg's words were so significant and translating constitutional law into layman's terms. This book had the potential to be really superficial, or boring and text-heavy. It was neither. The story behind RBG's legacy was approachable and well-written well. Highly recommend!

You Know Me Well by Nina Lacour and David Levithan | I received this book free from NetGalley in exchange for my honest review.

I love, love, loved this book. LGBT teens finally have YA that resonates and I love that. This story of two unlikely friends who come together through San Francisco's Pride Week to help each other through relationships and life changes is so wonderful- I can't wait to read more from these authors!

Eligible by Curtis Sittenfeld | Being in love with Mr. Darcy (what girl isn't) and living in the Cincinnati-area, this book was a double whammy for me. I love, love, loved everything about this modern retelling of Pride and Prejudice. By far, one of my favorite books I've read in a long time!

IF YOU HAVE TIME

Fantastic Beasts & Where to Find Them by Newt Scamander (J.K. Rowling) | I read this in preparation for the movie coming out in November, and because why wouldn't I want to take another jaunt through the wizarding world of Harry Potter? Although I love any opportunity to be transported back into Harry Potter world, and this book did make me excited for the upcoming movie, it was too textbook-y for my taste, and I think would have benefited from some illustrations to give life to the "fantastic beasts."

The Chronicles of Narnia (#1-6) by C.S. Lewis | I may have overdosed on The Chronicles of Narnia series while I was on the road, listening to the audiobooks. By the time, I got to the seventh, I was done. They weren't bad and they made for the perfect listen for a long road trip, but I just can't bring myself to be as crazy as C.S. Lewis as everyone else seems to be. 

Carry On by Rainbow Rowell | I can't even begin to describe how much I adored Fangirl and Eleanor and Park, so it seems that every book of Rowell's that I've read since then just fails to measure up. Carry On was cute, but not one of my favorites of hers and it was really difficult in the beginning for me to avoid comparing it with Harry Potter.

DON'T BOTHER

Bridget Jones: The Edge of Reason by Helen Fielding | I just plain ol' didn't enjoy this as much as the first. 90% was a series of misunderstandings between Bridget and Mark Darcy and I found it so frustrating and annoying. It did get progressively better toward the end, but not enough to erase the first 300 pages of frustration.

I Wish My Teacher Knew by Kyle Schwartz | I received this book free from NetGalley in exchange for my honest review.

This book was nothing like I expected which is perhaps why I didn't give it a higher rating. I anticipated a warm, fuzzy story about a classroom experiment that drew a teacher and her students closer. What I got, was a book about educational reform. I found it to be slow at parts, but for the most part, well-researched and informative. I particularly enjoyed the chapters on how poverty, student mobility, and trauma impact students' learning. 

I think in theory, Schwartz was writing to an audience of teachers, parents, and community members, but in actuality wrote narrowly to her fellow educators. As someone not very informed about educational policy and the issues facing our students, I wish she had provided more guidance to those of us outside of the school system.

I would definitely recommend for friends in the education system, but maybe not as much for those outside of it.

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Travel

In addition to having my nose in a book 24/7, I also took my first child-free trip to Binghamton, NY to watch my baby sister graduate with her Masters in Student Affairs Administration. Five days without Charlie had me a little homesick toward the end, but it was such a blessing getting to celebrate my sister's amazing accomplishment with her and my parents, as well as getting to see my high school bestie for a quick breakfast on my drive back home. 

Kelly's post-graduation dinner.

Stopping by for some waffles with Whitney in Ithaca, NY!

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Foodie Fun

May was also the month in which we tried Blue Apron for the first time! My supervisor gifted me with a week of free meals through the service (which is seriously the coolest and most thoughtful birthday gift ever) and Chuck and I had sooo much fun cooking and trying new recipes that were completely outside of our comfort zone, but turned out delicious! Although it is a bit of a splurge, we loved it so much that we've decided to receive a once per month delivery from here on out. It's better than spending that money on takeout!



This General Tso's Chicken was something I never would have had the courage to try on my own, but was so dang good and not nearly as intimidating to make as I thought it would be!

Next up, was Red Quinoa and Black Bean Enchiladas. Chuck was skeptical that we shouldn't add chicken to the recipe, but I was adamant about trying it as the recipe called for. He wound up loving them and not even missing the meat!

I was out of town visiting my sister so I didn't get a chance to try the Seared Salmon Salad, but Chuck took the initiative to make it on his own and his words it was, "So. F*&%ing. Good."

Not a sponsored post by any means, but if anyone is on the fence about trying a meal delivery service, I would 100% recommend Blue Apron- we loved it and are so looking forward to our delivery next week! Stay tuned for more of my culinary escapades!

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Bumpdate

Lastly, it wouldn't be a proper May recap without making some kind of commentary on the little alien growing inside my belly. Baby #2 (who does have a name, but we aren't planning to share until after he's born) is kicking up a storm and is making Mommy's belly sooo much bigger this time around than my first pregnancy with Charlie. See for yourself:



It sounds like such a cliche, but this pregnancy really is flying by and it's incredibly hard to believe that in just three months I'm going to be a mom to TWO boys! I definitely have a lot of thoughts on how different (and similar) pregnancy is the second time around, but not a lot of time to articulate them. Here's hoping I can throw together a post on this in the near future!

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And shameless plug, if you want to follow my summer reads and escapades, be sure to follow me on GoodReads and Instagram. I may stink at updating my blog, but I'm pretty darn good at recording my recent reads and pictures of my adorable ginger baby, ever-growing bump, and culinary adventures!






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