4.29.2013

Top 10 Favorite Posts


It's come to my attention that I've gained a smattering of new followers as of late. So for those of you who may be new to this blog space I wanted to do a little introducing and show you what I'm all about. Here is the abbreviated version, in no particular order:



10. My response to those who have said "take care of your own first."

9. My insecurities about becoming a wife.

8. My thoughts on pre-marital sex.

7. My reasons for blogging.

6. My explanation for my strong feelings toward the military.

5. My last few years chronicled through Facebook.

4. My colorful, joyous, blessed wedding day.

3. My most profound week of my life spent in Rwanda in 2009.

2. My plan of attack for paying off our massive student loan debt.

1. My calling to adopt.


4.26.2013

Quarter Life Check-In (& Giveaway Winner!)


Last month I warned you all of my impending quarter life crisis and my plan to keep it at bay. Six-ish weeks later, here's my status report:

1. Pay off a portion of our debt

You may remember this little image if you follow me on Instagram...


Not only did we pay my Mom off completely for the money she lent us for our honeymoon, but we've payed off a huge chunk of one of our student loans!

2. Return to yoga

I did start going to yoga classes at the local studio with a new friend from Church, but money being as tight as it is, this one didn't happen as frequently as I would have liked.


3. Devote more time to my blog

Yes, and no. I had periods where I scheduled posts, returned e-mails and updated my pages. But consistency is not my friend and I would definitely like to get better about scheduling my posts ahead of time so when I have those days of writer's block, my blog followers will never know! Muhaha!

4. Plant some seeds

This one is a straight up fail. I haven't decided if/where I'll be gardening this season because the next few months are a little uncertain for us. Shame on me.

5. Eliminate processed junk from our cupboards

This was a pretty decent success! Hubby really wants to invest in a juicer and try a juice fast when our budget allows. But for the time being we've been munching on carrot sticks, bananas and apples and making smoothies like it's our job!


A scene from my hubby's birthday dinner: I think we can make an exception for birthday cake!

6. Go for a run/hike

We did, we did! I found a nearby park that has some great walking/biking/hiking trails and I'm bound and determined to find more. There is nothing more physically and spiritually refreshing to me than a good hike! :)

7. Pray

I think this one always has room for growth, but I have made more of an effort to thank God for the little things.

All in all, I've gotta say- I'm proud of myself for reaching the goals (however easy they may be) I set for myself. I'm pretty terrible at sticking to resolutions so this was a huge victory for me. 

Twenty-five is looking alright!

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Congratulations to Casey! You won my Quarter Life Giveaway- stay tuned for an e-mail with more deets to come!


4.24.2013

Travel Log: Living in a Mud Hut (2009)


In case you missed it, a couple months ago, I chronicled one of the coolest experiences of my life: a weekend spent exploring the sub-Saharan wildlife at the Queen Elizabeth Wildlife Preserve in Uganda. Check it out, here.

Today, I'm traveling back in time not long before my safari weekend, to my Spring Break spent living in a mud hut. Seriously. Click on each day if you want to read the posts that accompany each picture. They're much more detailed than I could ever hope to be, four years later.




My "shower."
Just wait until Day Four, when I talk about being walked in on...by a cow.



























Four years later, this Spring Break seems about a million years ago. One of the things I'm most frequently asked about my trip was how in the heck I killed that chicken. Me, the girl, who will rant and rave for hours about the inhumane slaughter of animals in U.S. factory farms. To explain my justification out of the Ugandan context doesn't make sense to most people, but I'll do my best.

1. In Uganda, you slaughter your own meal with your own hands because that's just what you do. You don't open up a refrigerator and decide between a million options for dinner. I slaughtered the chicken because it was my sustenance. 

2. The beef I have with factory farming (pun intended) is that it is wasteful and it completely removes us from the food we eat. We have no idea who raised the animal we're about to ingest, nor what hormones and feed it was given, nor how it was processed and packaged. It's strange and unnatural for us to identify beef and pork as the ground up, styrofoam-ed mystery that it is. To have a part in the slaughter of the animal I in turn ate for dinner just seemed so beautiful and natural to me.

So that's my story and I'm sticking to it! Please feel free to pepper me with other questions about my rural Ugandan living :)

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And don't forget to enter my Quarter Life Giveaway ending this Friday!


4.17.2013

Scenes from Hubby's Birthday


Because we're flat out broke this year and counted my trip to DC and our weekend in Ohio as our birthday presents, Chuck's birthday Monday night wound up being very low-key. I picked up some groceries, rushed home, cleaned as much of the apartment as I could and surprised the love of my life with a scrumptious homemade dinner.


Although I asked Chuck what he wanted for dinner, he was not at all helpful (he's the easiest guy to please), so in keeping with his desire to eat healthier I made a fruit salad, asparagus and beef wrapped with bacon (I mean, it was his birthday, after all).




I called him like three times to see when he was almost home so I could light the candles. It dashed any hopes for a surprise, but he was really excited anyway. 


I was also so thankful that the second he walked in the door, his family called to help me sing him "Happy Birthday" over speakerphone. We felt like they were truly there in spirit.


And finally- blowing out the candles! We ended our night with slices of unbelievably good German chocolate cake, and lots of snuggles and kisses. 

But the best part of the birthday celebrations? A new nephew born yesterday morning! 

We are so stinkin' blessed.

4.11.2013

Thursday Thoughts: Adoption


I could make this a really short post simply by telling you that this face is the reason I want to adopt.



My heart practically bursts every time I look at this picture. Isaac was four when I stayed with he and his family for two weeks during my semester in Uganda. I taught him how to play Patty Cake. And in turn, he stole my heart.

Before Isaac, I genuinely never thought I would have kids. I wasn't comfortable around them, I sure as hell didn't feel maternal and I never pictured myself married. But after about 30 minutes with Isaac, I was in love. 

I knew from that point on that firstly, I wanted to one day be a Mommy. But secondly, I wanted to be an adoptive Mommy.

Now that Chuck and I have been married for a little while my baby fever is off the charts. He tells me how he can't wait to see me with a pregnant belly and I pepper him with questions and hypotheticals about international adoption. 

I started out just reading blogs about women who were going through or had already documented their experiences with adoption. Then, a couple weeks ago I checked out The Complete Book of International Adoption to get a better grasp on the logistical side of adoption (both international and domestic). To be honest, the process sounds like a total pain in the ass. But a totally worthwhile pain in the ass.


Then tonight, I finally finished Kisses from Katie, a book I've had on my to-read list from the time I initially heard about Katie's story. I can't even put into words how incredible this book is and I don't want to give out any spoilers, but if I wasn't convicted before, I certainly am now.



At one point, Katie writes, "How do I tell a child I love her when she doesn't know love? How do I expect her to trust me when all she has ever known is broken trust? I prove it." And it hit me while reading that: I know there are children who are starving. I know there are children who lack basic clothing, shelter, education and access to medical care. But I hadn't even considered that there are children in this world who do not know love.

And for some reason, that hurt me even more than the idea of a child dying of malnutrition. The idea of a child dying (or living) without ever feeling loved sickens me. 

This is why Chuck and I feel called to adopt. We don't know when, we don't know how, but we certainly know why. Because apart from giving a child who may not have otherwise have a safe and healthy home a roof over their head. We want to give a child who may not otherwise know love a lifetime of abundant, overflowing, radiant, unconditional love.

Book images courtesy of GoodReads.com

4.10.2013

Five Steps to Becoming a Full-On Foodie


Considering I not-so-recently withdrew from a graduate Food Studies program and work with farmers on a daily basis, you'd think I'd talk more about food on this blog. And I don't.

So today, I'm going to change that. I want to talk about the best ways to engage your inner foodie.

Step 1: Get Yo'self a Damn Good Cookbook

If you're lost in a sea of Rachael Ray and The Joy of Cooking- let me share with you my personal fave. This cookbook has seriously rocked my world.

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It was written by Farmer John of Angelic Organics, a CSA (Community Supported Agriculture- read more here) vegetable and herb farm. Inspired by a desire to teach CSA members how to cook the veggies they were taking home week after week, the cookbook is organized first by season. Cold season veggies like winter squash and cabbage are in one section, while tomatoes and cucumbers have their own summer section. Secondly, within seasons, the book is broken down alphabetically by vegetable.

I cannot even begin to tell you what a useful tool this is to have- and the recipes are so flippin' tasty!

Step 2: Have a Grocery Budget

I know that not everyone desiring to be a foodie is under a tremendous financial crunch like some of us, but this has been so handy for our family. Typically, we give ourselves $400/month for groceries. Which is clearly not an extravagant amount of money. But limiting ourselves in this way has been so beneficial. For starters, it's nice to know exactly how much to allocate to this category of our budget when so many other things vary from month to month. More than that, thought, it's trained us to only buy the important things.

Have to admit, I'm still a bargain shopper to the core-
I got all this at CVS for $12.94!

Fruits and veggies are always the priority on our list. Followed by protein and then some carbs. This leaves little wiggle room for spontaneous purchases and makes us re-think how much we really need that box of Pop-Tarts or that pint of Ben & Jerry's.

Step 3: Get creative

For us, this almost always means one thing: smoothies. We all have those days where slaving away in the kitchen is the absolute last thing we want to be doing. Lazy food definitely happens routinely in our house, but we always ensure that we're also getting our fill of the healthy stuff. We never mow down on our Annie's Mac and Cheese without first throwing some broccoli or peas into the pot. 



And my absolute favorite smoothie combo is mango, blackberry, banana, spinach, orange juice and coconut milk. So flippin' good. We've also been known to throw in some blueberries, raspberries, chia seeds, kale and celery. Pretty much whatever we have lying neglected in our refrigerator drawer.

Step 4: Shop local

It doesn't matter where you live, chances are a CSA or Farmer's Market is not far off. The reasons for buying local outweigh supermarket shopping by about a million fold. Chances are your food is fresher, tastier, and not drowning in pesticides and other harmful chemicals. You're also supporting the hard work of your neighbors and stimulating your local economy!



Plus, Farmer's Markets are just plain fun! It's such a good experience to mingle with vendors and shop at your leisure.

Step 5: DIY

If you want fresh veggies, grow them! 


If you want delicious leftovers, cook them!



And if you ever get stuck, hit me up! Despite what you may have been led to believe by this sad little cyberspace of mine, I can legit talk about food all day, every day. Just start the conversation ;)

4.09.2013

Weekend in DC: The Less Serious Stuff


So I told you yesterday about the reason for my recent trip to our nation's capital. But I saved the more light-hearted stuff for today!

Along with lots and lots o' prayer, there was also lots and lots o' time spent reuniting with my friends. Bekah, Laura and I were all roommates at one point or another during college. 


Freshman year: Laura and Bekah. 
Sophomore year: Kaity and Laura.
Junior year: Laura and Bekah.
Senior year: Kaity and Bekah, then Kaity and Laura.

Phew! Lots of living arrangements, lots of laughs and lots of love :)

Anyway, we met up for the conference, did a little shopping, a little eating out and a lot of reveling in the splendor of our hotel accommodations.

View of the National Harbor from the 14th floor!

View of the Gaylord National Harbor atrium from the elevator

Bekah and I found a Peeps Mobile!

And a whole Peeps store!



Bekah and I after dinner the first night

And two of my gorgeous bridesmaids :)





My first experience at Pinkberry! It was so YUM!

Bekah and I in between sessions at the Global Prayer Gathering!

It's such a wonderful feeling to know as you get older that you have friends who will always be there. Months go by, relationships come and go- but (as corny and cliche as it sounds)- these girls are for life.

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